I’m a writer (or trying to be one) and I know that you’re not supposed to start with backstory, HOWEVER, I need to set the stage…
Our church has challenged us to read a chapter of Proverbs every day for a month. We, my husband and I, haven’t been that great on keeping up with daily study, but what we have done is to read and discuss a chapter of Proverbs as a family after dinner. Our daughters (Daughter #1 and Daughter #2, to protect the innocent), have started to enjoy it, and even D#2 (she’s 7) will ask for us to read the Bible. So far, so good.
Today, we got to chapter 5. Have you read Proverbs 5? Check it out (go ahead, I’ll wait) especially verses 15-20.
Here’s a nice conversation snippet to let you know how tonight went:
Me: So what do you think that means?
Me: What is sex?
D#1: I don’t know. I didn’t understand it when they talked about it in church today. (Note: our church tells it like it is. And today, there was a small discussion on how married people have the best sex, but that’s for another post…)
Me: Do you remember when we talked about what cycles are? There’s a biological process behind sex, but I’m not sure you want to hear it.
(The last time I took 9 yo D#1 to the doctor, the nurse asked if she was having cycles yet. My answer “no way!” caused an interesting biological discussion in the car on the way home that pretty much mortified D#1. Although, she now knows that one day there will be bleeding…)
D#1: I don’t want to know.
Me: Well, sex is what a man and woman do to make babies.
So here’s some helpful definitions from that section of Proverbs:
amoral woman – a woman who does bad things
promiscuous woman – a woman who does baby-making things with someone besides her husband
Now the whole breast stuff–geez. Anyone noticed the Bible is definitely not G-rated? My explanation: God made men to like the way women look. But God only wants men to look at and do baby-making things with their wife.
And that, my friends, is what Proverbs 5 is all about: self-control. What is wisdom? Sometimes it’s knowing when to say no to something you want. That could be women, dessert, cigarettes, or watching too much TV. And if we fail to say no, then what happens? That’s in Proverbs 5 too.
Do you read the Bible with your kids? Have you had any difficult discussions like the one above? How did you do? I would love to hear about it!